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| one day |
One day, during an evening class for adults, the
psychology Teacher entered the class and told
students, “Let’s all play a game!” “ What Game?”
The Teacher asked one of the students to
volunteer.
A lady, Aliza came forward.
The Teacher asked her to write 30 names of most
important people in her life on blackboard.
Aliza wrote names of her family members,
relatives, friends, her colleagues and her
neighbors.
The Teacher told her to erase 3 names that Aliza
considered most unimportant.
Aliza erased names of her colleagues.
The Teacher again told her to delete 5 more
names. Aliza erased her neighbor's names.
This went on until there were just four names left
on the blackboard. These were names of her
mother, father, husband and the only son...
The entire class became silent realizing that this
wasn’t a game anymore for Aliza alone.
Now, The Teacher told her to delete two more
names.
It was a very difficult choice for Aliza.
She unwillingly deleted her parents names.
“Please delete one more” said the Teacher.
Aliza became very nervous and with trembling
hands and tears in eyes she deleted her son’s
name. Aliza cried painfully...
The Teacher told Aliza to take her seat.
After a while Teacher asked "why your husband??
The parents are the ones that nurtured you, and
the son is the one you gave birth to ??? And you
can always find another husband !!!"
Total silence in the class.
Everyone was curious to know her response.
Aliza calmly and slowly said, “One day my parents
will pass away before me.
My son may also leave me when he grows old, for
his studies or business or whatever reason. The
only one who will truly share his entire life with
me, is my Husband”.
All the students stood up and applauded for her
for sharing this truth of life.
This is true. So always value your life partner, it's
not only for husbands but wives as well.
God has united these two souls and it's on you
now to nurture this relationship above all.
